| Name |
Shirley Helen Block |
| Born |
11 Jan 1937 |
Mile End, Stepney, Middlesex, England  |
| Gender |
Female |
| Note |
c 1941 [1] |
| As a result of Henry Block's military service, Shirley did not know her father until she was 3 or 4 years old. |
| Residence |
c 1941 |
Berkhampstead, Hertfordshire, England [2] |
| Evacuated to Berkhampstead with mother Leah during WWII whilst father was away in service. Enjoyed this very much and liked Berkhampstead. Probably 39 Ellesmere Road |
| Residence |
11 Sep 1942 |
Willesden, MIddlesex, England |
| 3 Avenue Mansions, Park Avenue |
| Note |
Dec 1944 |
| Army issue Christmas card sent to daughter Shirley (then aged 7) for Christmas 1944. |
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Army Christmas card.
Sent to by Henry to daughter Shirley (aged 7) for Christmas 1944. |
| Education |
Between 1949 and 1954 |
Willesden, MIddlesex, England |
| Dudden Hill Secondary School |
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Prize for general proficiency - a book, Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain
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| Occupation |
Mar 1955 |
| Shorthand typist, National Bank of India |
| Education |
1954-1956 |
Hendon, Middlesex, England |
| Hendon Technical College |
| Medical |
Brown eyes, brown hair. 5 foot 8 inches
Blood group: A. Rhesus +ve. W.R.Kahn -ve |
| Residence |
11 Jan 1958 |
Kilburn, Middlesex, England |
| 3 Christchurch Avenue |
| Residence |
Sep 1959 |
Willesden, MIddlesex, England |
| 33 St Paul's Avenue |
| Occupation |
Between 1970 and 1972 |
Willesden, MIddlesex, England |
| School Secretary, Princess Frederica Infants School, College Road |
| Occupation |
Between 1972 and 1975 |
Wembley, Middlesex, England |
| School Secretary, Chalkhill Primary School |
| Occupation |
Between 1975 and 1979 |
Wembley, Middlesex, England |
| Personal Assistant / secretary to Director of Housing Brent Council |
| Property |
Aft 6 Mar 1978 |
Kingsbury, Middlesex, England |
Address:
96 Birchen Grove |
| Occupation |
Between May 1979 and 1 Nov 1985 |
| Housing Advisor |
| Occupation |
1 Nov 1984 |
| Senior Housing Advisor |
| Occupation |
Between Dec 1985 and Apr 1989 |
| Senior Homeless Persons Officer |
| Occupation |
Between Apr 1989 and Dec 1994 |
| Principal Homeless Persons Officer |
| Property |
Between Jun 1996 and Apr 2000 |
Mandeville, Manchester, Jamaica |
| Lot 2 Hopetown Gardens, Dunrobin |
| Will |
17 Apr 1998 |
| Executors to will: David Henry Thrale (eldest child), Lindsay Cox (only sibling) |
| Died |
27 Sep 2000 |
Kensington, Middlesex, England [3] |
| Agency: Pembridge Palliative Care Centre, St Charles' Hospital |
- Died at 4 am whilst with sister Lindsay
|
| Cremated |
04 Oct 2000 |
Golders Green, Middlesex, England |
| Agency: Golders Green Crematorium |
Address:
62 Hoop Lane |
- The service was conducted at the crematorium in front of around 200 people. It was a joint faith service, with Jewish prayers and readings by Rabbi Guy Hall and Christian prayers and readings by Pastor Burnett. Psalm 23 which is used in both traditions was read.
Her eulogy which follows was written by her Son David Thrale and was delivered by her other son Stacey Thrale.
"Firstly we would like to thank, Rabbi Hall and Pastor Burnett, for leading today's service. We would also like to thank all the kind people who have helped both Mum and her family. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
David and I would like to tell you about our mother Shirley ...
Mum was born before the war in Willesden to a Jewish family. She had a younger sister Lindsay and an elder brother Rodney who died before Shirley was born.
Mum could be rebellious and as a child, she once decided that she didn't like her bedroom because of a cracked window pane. Whilst her parents were out, she and Lindsay swapped furniture between the bedroom and the living room. Of course, when their parents returned home they were not at all happy so they had to change it back again.
Shirley soon met our father Ken not far from here in a Golders Green dance hall. Soon after they first met Mum saw Dad from her bus, so she jumped off and deliberately bumped into him pretending it was an accidental meeting but Dad never knew!
Mum and Dad were well suited as they both liked Jazz clubs, dancing and smart clothes. They often spent many a romantic evening at the pictures, with Mum's 11-year-old sister Lindsay in tow who always insisted on sitting in the middle.
When her parents decided to move to Dunstable Mum rebelled and set-up a flat with her friend Denise when she was 17. She travelled every weekend back to Dunstable, to enjoy the luxuries of their bath. Her kind-hearted parents would both give her money, saying, "take this, don't tell your Dad", and "take this, don't tell your Mum".
Ken & Shirley married in 1959, a little while after she started working for the Bank of India and then Handley Page where she was secretary to Sir Handley Page himself. Mum gave up work after we were born,
Once my brother and I had both reached school age, mum started work again but only part-time so that she could spend as much time with us as possible.
For a short while Dad was out of work. Mum was very strong and made many sacrifices to steer our family through these difficult times. When the rent man called we remember hiding behind the sofa with Mum pretending to be out.
Mum was school secretary at Princess Frederica Primary School and later at Chalkhill Primary School. This allowed her to be at home with us during the school holidays. We have many happy memories, of all day, swimming at Kingsbury open-air pool, Willesden Swimming pool, Butlins at Bognor Regis, holidays in Uncle Brian's drafty flat in Hove & Sunday afternoon trips to buy ice cream from our favourite shop in Childs Hill. Whilst at Chalkhill School Mum gave the headmaster Kenneth Rudge - a budding author - the idea for one of his children's books, a story about a teenager going to a big open-air music festival, just like the famous Reading Music Festival that Mum used to help to organise.
For years Mum worked at the celebrated Marquee club, London's version of the Cavern. When she started there it was a Soho Jazz club. As time changed this small venue became a rock club. Almost all the major bands played there, Thin Lizzy, The Who, Genesis, The Jam & many more. Mum also saw the birth of Punk, and later the likes of Tom Robinson and Adam Ant.
When we were younger Mum took us to see our favourite band - Slade at the Marquee. Mum even got us into their dressing room. Our young impressionable minds were horrified as Mum took us down Wardour Street, taking time to say hello to the strip club's bouncers.
Just like at home in Kingsbury, it seemed like everyone in Soho knew her. That was Mum, she liked good food, music and going out, but most of all she LOVED people.
We often thought that our family was lucky to have so many good friends. It wasn't luck it was because of Mum. People saw her special kindness, friendship, good humour and her special zest for life. Mum would find time to talk to people. She put people at ease and let them know that they were important to her. We remember her many good deeds like putting up a friend of mine whose house had been damaged in a fire. Mum and Dad often told us "You can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends".
When we were older, Mum returned to full-time work as a Personal Assistant to Brent's Director of Housing. She eventually went on to become a Principal Homeless Persons Officer. This brought out the best in Mum, so many different people to mix with.
Shirley and Ken had a long and happy marriage and made many close friends. We remember countless long and happy dinner parties held at our home. As they grew older together they enjoyed many happy foreign holidays. Sadly their marriage was cut short by Dad's sudden death in 1987, five weeks before their 28th Anniversary.
In time Mum met Anton, whilst visiting a good friend in Jamaica. They were married in 1991, and have been together ever since. Mum had a few happy years of retirement living an easy & relaxed life in the Caribbean. Mum lived in Jamaica with Anton for about five years. She made many more good friends there.
Mum dearly loved Anton She was also devoted to Anton's son, Shane and brought him up as her own. Despite the pain she suffered every day, she continued to look after Shane and helped him to settle into his new school. We can clearly see all the good things that she taught us, in Shane. Shane will miss her terribly.
In her last days, David had the pleasure of telling Mum that Michelle is pregnant. Mum was delighted to hear that her third grandchild was on the way and told everyone that visited her. David's good friend Lee then told her about his forthcoming marriage. Quick as a flash Mum quipped "About bloody time!" Even in her last few days, she made friends with nurses and cleaners at the hospital, and told everyone that she was determined to "make this a short stay".
We are all richer for having known Shirley. She has shown so many people that life isn't about money or things, or who you are. It is about family, people, friendship, and love.
Shirley's epitaph is not in the words that I am now reading or those that will be placed on her plaque but is written in the hearts of the many many people who experienced her love, kindness and humour.
I leave you with the words that Shirley used after both her sons were married-off. These words are as appropriate now as they were then ...
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty, I am free at last."
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Memorial plaque for Kenneth David Thrale and Shirley Helen Thrale née Block
Plot: Horder Garden H15 |
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Memorial plant for Kenneth David Thrale and Shirley Helen Thrale née Block
Plot: Horder Garden H15 |
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View of garden from memorial to Kenneth David Thrale and Shirley Helen Thrale née Block
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| Probate |
8 Jan 2001 |
| Person ID |
I370 |
UK Thrale family |
| Last Modified |
31 Mar 2019 |
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